Often I have seen that people have become very easy going. Although that is a very good quality which provides you with the ability to survive with any kind of people around in any kind of place. This is because possessing the quality of being an easy going guy makes a person flexible he/she can bend his/her personality according to the environment he/she is currently dwelling in. For example the person is like butter you can slice it off anyway by a knife and can eat it everytime you wish to do so. It does not matter that how you have sliced it off! But being easy going always, might hurt you sometimes when in order to tolerate or go with the situations easily you lose your ability to feel your self esteem and self respect. When normally someone says something to you or intimidates you and, if you are an easy going person you will normally ignore it or take it just like a day to day talk. But if you are a really self respectful and self esteemed person you should take it as a normal thing but you have to take it as a reminder or have to mark the person's words in mind and see if he/ she again says it or not or hints at it or not. If such a thing happens then it is the time that the person is making fun of you or is doubting YOURSELF and YOUR ABILITIES! I have emphasized on these words because you too have emphasize on these words in your mind in the same way I did here. You have to feel that the person is challenging you and you are a person who loves and respects himself/herself a lot so how can you hear such things. Now after realization of the point you shall think yes THINK! That how can you show that what the person is saying is false and you got to have that inner fire and feeling to build up your confidence & mind in order to make that person feel ashamed of himself/herself of what he/she had done to you! You should always be alert about the fact that you are YOU and the best person of the world you have all the capabilities to do all those things; that you wish to do or is good at or have thought of to do! You have to sit in solace and realize yourself and motivate yourself, love yourself and ignite your inner self flames in order to prove YOURSELF. And this can only happen when you truly respect yourself and have a great believe in yourself. So keep respecting yourself and see how world will bow before you ALWAYS!!!
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I completely agree with you when you say that self-respect makes you an extra-ordinary human being. However, Just want to add that if a person is easy-going that doesn't mean that he or she doesn't have self-respect, but you can definitely say that the level or intensity of self-respect can vary.
To add more, every individual is blessed with self respect but it is only this fact that not each of them realize it and even if they realize it, they don't know how to draw a line so that things(talks, actions) are not posing any threat to their self-respect.
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