What should be our attitude?

We, humans are the most blessed species because we have been given the most wonderful gift by the GOD, which is our BRAIN. Look at any other species and you will find a strange fact and that is all the other animals etc are not so creative as we are. We have created all what you can see around from the place you are reading this blog post of mine. So isn't it wonderful to feel this specialness. But what people do is that they forget about this special status of ours on this planet. They try to ignore all the things and just become selfish. People do not take care of their surroundings they throw rubbish anywhere, they pollute the environment, destroy the habitats of precious wildlife many of which might not be available by the time we have grown our grandchildren, we fight, we kill, we become selfish and think only for ourselves, thinking as if whatever we do is fine and even it hurts something else then why do we care? Yes my dear this is the attitude problem I have seen these days in most of the person nowadays. So what can be done now is the main question to be answered. First of all I would like to tell that yes it is fine that you think for yourself and this should be your attitude but this should not hurt someone. We have to think or devise such plans that there should be no harm to anyone we are dealing with whether it is a person, a group of persons or our environment. We shall consider the fact that we are a part of this planet and this human society and we are blessed so we should not behave like NO BRAINS. We shall think globally or should add a lot of factors before we are deciding something we should not be self centered but also not self ignorant. There should be a perfect balance between the two points. Our attitude shall be such that we shall not do too much for other s and forget ourselves plus we shall also not forget others and remember only our interests. Our attitude in our life should also be very positive we should always think that we will succeed in whatever we do. We shall always think and inquire before we do anything so that we do not regret ourselves later. And the most important thing is that WE SHALL ALWAYS READY TO LEARN TO RECEIVE. When we are ready to learn and receive we are in a vacant state and this state of ours will always keep us humble and we will be always gaining in our life. We shall not always be ready to give as our resources and the most precious thing which is our time shall be utilized for our goals sensibly keeping in mind all the above given points. When we are always giving then people try to exploit us they get used to us so this also makes us feel good but we do not realize this that what all blessings they are giving to us or good things they are saying about our selflessness is although good. But these all things are in no way going to help us if we are not doing anything for us and just giving all our time and energy for other people. So if you good people at heart are reading my blog understand the fact that GOD is really happy with you and your selflessness but if you have got aims or wishes then you have to balance your attitude. So the moral of the story is that BE YOURSELF BE GOOD FOR YOU AND OTHERS BUT BE BALANCED AND POSITIVE ALWAYS!!!!!!

Now I Will Also Write About Technology etc!!!

My friends from now onwards I will not only write articles having the social and spiritual topics but also on technology and my ideas. So keep reading. My main aim would be to write such that even the complex of technologies and thoughts can be presented in an easy to understand and remember. The remembering part is important because if somebody just reads but do not remembers then the time spent on the following reading or learning is just wasted totally. So enjoy the benefits of reading!!!

How To Learn!!!

The easiest way to learn anything is to understand it. Rather memorizing it by heart. But in order to do so; besides students; teachers also have a crucial part to play. But nowadays what is happening is that the students are studying to just get more and more marks whether it is a school or college. We can see everywhere that the same tradition is being followed i.e. of just getting more and more marks in exams. The result is that we are able to witness the rising of the average percentage obtained in respective subjects by the individuals. But still when on one side we see the rising percentages obtained, on the other side we again and again see in the newspapers, Internet or on the television that our industries require quality skilled professionals and there is shortage of such people. So can you now understand that why this problem is occurring, this is because largely ,the students are not trying to learn anything they are just trying to get marks and teachers also are also not interested in helping this situation out. In virtually every college we can see this happening, sometimes the students do not want to study and sometimes the teachers do not want to teach. But this is not the case which happens occasionally but normally. If you think about it then you will find that it is the fault of the teachers only that we are not getting quality manpower. Most of the times the teachers are not qualified enough and they get through the interviews by some source etc, and sometimes they are lazy and do not want to teach. You can understand the situation of the students because now, how can we expect them to be serious in studies. So what they do is they cram up the lessons and concentrate on just getting marks. Because if the leader is lazy then how can an army win the battle. So if my friend you want to be a skilled and quality professional when you pass out you should study yourself and just do not try to cram up the lessons, but try to understand them by using various examples to understand the logic in it. You might also have witnessed that when you go and give your exams after cramming up the lessons as soon as you come out of the examination hall you lose the memory of what you have studied and learnt for the respective exam. You only remember those things or concepts that were understood by you not anything else. So my friends study hard, learn by understanding and believe in yourself to succeed and make our nation proud of yourself. And teachers please be serious, take your jobs seriously, and please the recruitment officers at the educational institutions hire only: the right person & not your relatives, as it is the future of many students and the future of our nation with whom you are dealing with!!!!!!

First You Then Anybody Else (Charity Begins From Yourself)

It is always very humane and good to help others and work without expectation of any kind, for the needy. Some of these cases are like to help a poor boy/girl to understand some concept in mathematics if he/she is not able to take private tuition or go to school, feeding an old disabled man, caring about someone who is mentally retarded or is ill etc. This humane quality should be present in every human being to help others. But this quality shall not come in a person so much that he should forget himself and stop caring about his/her self. Now people would say that Mother Teresa also did the same but she also used to not care about herself but only about the needy and the poor. In order to explain this point I would first like to tell the person that Mother Teresa's soul aim was to serve the needy and the poor. She was not a lady who had to take care about her kids or who wished to go ahead in her life by getting promotions or incentives via work performance etc. To be precise her work was nothing other than to serve the God's sons & daughters heartily and with pure love and care. But what today I have seen people is that they either just donate money, clothes or food and do not even bother to see that these things are being provided to the needy or not. But this is not what, I am writing this blog post for. But I am writing it for those people who are normal human beings like me and you and then too they try to become angels forgetting that if we have to serve others then we should be in such a position that we are carefree from our side i.e. regarding our development, our work, and our progress etc. Many wise men has also taught us that we should take one job at a time and then can we only achieve good results in it. But I have seen people who are not satisfied by themselves, they themselves have not learnt or followed the path God has showed, and even they are do not sometimes know their goals and even if they know they do not do anything in order to attain them. But then too what these people preach is self motivation, self realisation and to be non selfish, even when they themselves are not satisfied and crave for more. I also know such good people like one of my dear one who is very sweet at heart and does everything to make people around happy but what this friend of mine gets back is nothing. So what I want to advice here is that until and unless we are in such a position that we can really help others without expecting to get anything back we shall not think of helping others. We should first concentrate on ourselves because if we are strong if we are satisfied then only we shall come forward to help others. We should first start the charity from ourselves and from our home first. Then we should think about others if we are hungry ourselves then how can we provide food to others. We should first make ourselves strong we shall concentrate on our goals and achieve them and then only can we teach the kids that what are the ways to survive in this world. So the moral of the story is that if we cannot help ourselves, if we cannot work hard for ourselves, if we cannot achieve our goals and if we cannot satisfy our desires then how can we say that we are capable to help others, to teach others or in my friend's case help someone else come on the right path when we ourselves are doing nothing to start this charity or helping attitude or this instinct to help ourselves in order to move ahead in our life. So before we think about others we should first give a little thought or ask a question to ourselves that have we done the same with us or with our near and dear ones who we might be neglecting or might be overlooking thinking that as they are near to us we can anytime take care of them. But friend this is the wrong attitude first we should think about us about our old parents and then we should think about others this is not being selfish because we have seen a lot of times that people commit suicide due to self negligence and loss of self motivation no matter if they are very social and helpful to others they failed to realise and help themselves and lost their precious self/life. Several times we have heard that people leave their parents in old age homes and on the other hand same people donate lakhs of money to cancer aid societies so isn't this ironical friend? We can also see it like this, that if all those people we see as oppressed and needy would have helped themselves then there condition would not be like what it is today. If these people would have helped themselves no matter how hard they would have tried I bet they would be better than what they are today but what they did was that they neglected themselves they failed to realise that it was they themselves were those who could have helped themselves. But what they did was they laid there hands in front of other people which should not be the case. So Help Yourself Be Happy Be Successful & then Help Others as GOD Loves You & He Wants You To Be Strong Enough To Spread His Love Around!

Self Respect can make you Extraordinary!

Often I have seen that people have become very easy going. Although that is a very good quality which provides you with the ability to survive with any kind of people around in any kind of place. This is because possessing the quality of being an easy going guy makes a person flexible he/she can bend his/her personality according to the environment he/she is currently dwelling in. For example the person is like butter you can slice it off anyway by a knife and can eat it everytime you wish to do so. It does not matter that how you have sliced it off! But being easy going always, might hurt you sometimes when in order to tolerate or go with the situations easily you lose your ability to feel your self esteem and self respect. When normally someone says something to you or intimidates you and, if you are an easy going person you will normally ignore it or take it just like a day to day talk. But if you are a really self respectful and self esteemed person you should take it as a normal thing but you have to take it as a reminder or have to mark the person's words in mind and see if he/ she again says it or not or hints at it or not. If such a thing happens then it is the time that the person is making fun of you or is doubting YOURSELF and YOUR ABILITIES! I have emphasized on these words because you too have emphasize on these words in your mind in the same way I did here. You have to feel that the person is challenging you and you are a person who loves and respects himself/herself a lot so how can you hear such things. Now after realization of the point you shall think yes THINK! That how can you show that what the person is saying is false and you got to have that inner fire and feeling to build up your confidence & mind in order to make that person feel ashamed of himself/herself of what he/she had done to you! You should always be alert about the fact that you are YOU and the best person of the world you have all the capabilities to do all those things; that you wish to do or is good at or have thought of to do! You have to sit in solace and realize yourself and motivate yourself, love yourself and ignite your inner self flames in order to prove YOURSELF. And this can only happen when you truly respect yourself and have a great believe in yourself. So keep respecting yourself and see how world will bow before you ALWAYS!!!

IMMORTALITY!

If a person is given the power of Free Will then most of the individuals will wish to live forever. But what would that prolonged life be worth if this respective person was unable to make even one person to believe in his thoughts, love him truly or have even one person who has respect for him. Then even if this person is given life till the end of the universe then too he will achieve nothing, in other words he would gain nothing meaningful or human in nature. A person truly becomes immortal when his thoughts, his teachings or path is followed by other people even if he is not alive. This person takes birth every time when a person remembers or follows his words. Our every action should be directed in such a way that even if we are not helping or caring about people then atleast we should not do anything that might hurt someone. We have to become a better loving individual or precisely a better human being in order to be remembered and to become IMMORTAL!

The Definition Of Being UNIQUE!

What is the meaning of being UNIQUE? It is not just that good feeling or that happy sense which we feel in our heart when somebody tells us that we are UNIQUE. The feelings and thoughts that comes to our mind are because of the response to these flattery or sometimes true words. But these feelings are largely without that deep thought that should initiate it. It is obvious that every body is unique because no two person in the world thinks the same way in everything, no two persons has exactly the same personality and no two persons has the same expectations and the list can continue forever..... But then what defines Uniqueness it is the self realization that defines it. The understanding of the self defines it. The recognition of self talents recognizes it, the confidence which we have in ourselves defines it. And the most important thing is that the understanding of why are you as an individual present here defines it! If you love your parents, siblings and friends then it means you are here to love them you have to realize this! If you love your job then it is because you love it so you are here , when you feel happy and filled with joy then it means that for recieving these soothing feelings you are here. In short there is no requirement of any deep understanding or mythological theories or metaphysical theories in knowing this, that why as an individual we are here or we are unique. We just have to realize it by thinking and thanking for all what we have! Then we will truly understand our meaning of UNIQUENESS!

My First THOUGHT To Start With!

To introduce myself I would just like to say that I am a person who likes to think and that is largely my hobby too. Anyone who might have read "THE SECRET" might be knowing the importance of it! I did not start thinking after reading that book but I got this habit since I started learning the ways of life in my childhood days. I realised that loving yourself and thinking can give answers to virtually anything. Buddha, Einstein, Newton, and many other highly inspiring and respected people have practised it some received the ultimate Wisdom or Path and some the ultimate answer to cosmic mysteries. So we have to think that when such difficult questions were answered and such ultimate gyaan i.e. ultimate knowledge was obtained by people just like us who are remembered till now and will always be, by thoughts building process called Thinking then why cannot we do the same!