Self Respect can make you Extraordinary!

Often I have seen that people have become very easy going. Although that is a very good quality which provides you with the ability to survive with any kind of people around in any kind of place. This is because possessing the quality of being an easy going guy makes a person flexible he/she can bend his/her personality according to the environment he/she is currently dwelling in. For example the person is like butter you can slice it off anyway by a knife and can eat it everytime you wish to do so. It does not matter that how you have sliced it off! But being easy going always, might hurt you sometimes when in order to tolerate or go with the situations easily you lose your ability to feel your self esteem and self respect. When normally someone says something to you or intimidates you and, if you are an easy going person you will normally ignore it or take it just like a day to day talk. But if you are a really self respectful and self esteemed person you should take it as a normal thing but you have to take it as a reminder or have to mark the person's words in mind and see if he/ she again says it or not or hints at it or not. If such a thing happens then it is the time that the person is making fun of you or is doubting YOURSELF and YOUR ABILITIES! I have emphasized on these words because you too have emphasize on these words in your mind in the same way I did here. You have to feel that the person is challenging you and you are a person who loves and respects himself/herself a lot so how can you hear such things. Now after realization of the point you shall think yes THINK! That how can you show that what the person is saying is false and you got to have that inner fire and feeling to build up your confidence & mind in order to make that person feel ashamed of himself/herself of what he/she had done to you! You should always be alert about the fact that you are YOU and the best person of the world you have all the capabilities to do all those things; that you wish to do or is good at or have thought of to do! You have to sit in solace and realize yourself and motivate yourself, love yourself and ignite your inner self flames in order to prove YOURSELF. And this can only happen when you truly respect yourself and have a great believe in yourself. So keep respecting yourself and see how world will bow before you ALWAYS!!!

IMMORTALITY!

If a person is given the power of Free Will then most of the individuals will wish to live forever. But what would that prolonged life be worth if this respective person was unable to make even one person to believe in his thoughts, love him truly or have even one person who has respect for him. Then even if this person is given life till the end of the universe then too he will achieve nothing, in other words he would gain nothing meaningful or human in nature. A person truly becomes immortal when his thoughts, his teachings or path is followed by other people even if he is not alive. This person takes birth every time when a person remembers or follows his words. Our every action should be directed in such a way that even if we are not helping or caring about people then atleast we should not do anything that might hurt someone. We have to become a better loving individual or precisely a better human being in order to be remembered and to become IMMORTAL!

The Definition Of Being UNIQUE!

What is the meaning of being UNIQUE? It is not just that good feeling or that happy sense which we feel in our heart when somebody tells us that we are UNIQUE. The feelings and thoughts that comes to our mind are because of the response to these flattery or sometimes true words. But these feelings are largely without that deep thought that should initiate it. It is obvious that every body is unique because no two person in the world thinks the same way in everything, no two persons has exactly the same personality and no two persons has the same expectations and the list can continue forever..... But then what defines Uniqueness it is the self realization that defines it. The understanding of the self defines it. The recognition of self talents recognizes it, the confidence which we have in ourselves defines it. And the most important thing is that the understanding of why are you as an individual present here defines it! If you love your parents, siblings and friends then it means you are here to love them you have to realize this! If you love your job then it is because you love it so you are here , when you feel happy and filled with joy then it means that for recieving these soothing feelings you are here. In short there is no requirement of any deep understanding or mythological theories or metaphysical theories in knowing this, that why as an individual we are here or we are unique. We just have to realize it by thinking and thanking for all what we have! Then we will truly understand our meaning of UNIQUENESS!

My First THOUGHT To Start With!

To introduce myself I would just like to say that I am a person who likes to think and that is largely my hobby too. Anyone who might have read "THE SECRET" might be knowing the importance of it! I did not start thinking after reading that book but I got this habit since I started learning the ways of life in my childhood days. I realised that loving yourself and thinking can give answers to virtually anything. Buddha, Einstein, Newton, and many other highly inspiring and respected people have practised it some received the ultimate Wisdom or Path and some the ultimate answer to cosmic mysteries. So we have to think that when such difficult questions were answered and such ultimate gyaan i.e. ultimate knowledge was obtained by people just like us who are remembered till now and will always be, by thoughts building process called Thinking then why cannot we do the same!